Jump into your truth. Now.
Truth is a hard fought state of being. Being you needs constant attention. Training. Awareness.
I don’t believe in a session here and there. Transforming you into YOU means a full on program.
THE NOTORIOUS HEARTS PROGRAMs
Notorious Hearts Programs are one-on-one, couples or group trainings. You and I will work intensely. For months. So you need to be sure:
Are you ready to jump? If not, then wait. Wait, till you’re done with how your life is unfolding. Till you’re fed up with grey tones and medium happiness. Till you’ve had enough of the troubles, or the boredom, or the addictions, or the depressions.
Who do I work with? With truth seekers. With men and women who want to be 100% alive. With entrepreneurs who want to do honest business. With anyone who wants to beat the truth. With. Their. Heart.
Life Before Steve, Life After Steve
“Steve was amazing at helping me learn more about myself and understanding how I live my life. He knew exactly when to listen, when to check me on my BS, and how to offer advice in a way I could understand. Through the program, I was able to dive into areas of my life that I had never talked about and finally make changes. I think of my life now as life before Steve and life after Steve.”
–S.D., Start-Up Engineer & Entrepreneur
Why are you here?







Is This You?
You’re not broken. You’re just done bullshitting yourself.
You’ve hit a threshold.
Whether life cracked you open and you found your way here through heartbreak, burnout, numbness, success that no longer satisfies, or just a longing to embody a more powerful version of yourself—you know the mask is slipping.
And you can’t fake it anymore.
Maybe you’re:
- A high-level creator, leader, or performer who’s done chasing the next achievement just to feel momentarily worthy—ready to build from soul, not ego.
- A truth junkie who’s tasted the real thing—and now refuses to settle for shallow relationships, surface spirituality, or half-alive living.
- A man or woman who’s tired of being boxed into soft or hard, weak or toxic—ready to embody the full spectrum of your truth.
- Someone quietly falling apart inside—lost, disconnected, numb. Maybe it looks like depression. Maybe it just feels like life has gone flat.
- A couple who knows there’s more—more depth, more fire, more raw devotion, more wild love—but can’t seem to access it without spiraling.
- Or a couple hanging by a thread, stuck in the same arguments, the same silence, the same ache to be met—and not knowing how to find each other anymore.
Good.
This is where the real work begins.
The Notorious hearts approach
This isn’t therapy.
It’s not a productivity hack or a spiritual bypass.
This is soul work.
Truth work.
We go straight to the roots—the unspoken contracts, the survival strategies, the hidden grief, the lies you’ve built your identity around.
We unstrap the armour.
We listen to what’s been silenced.
We bring you back to the place you left yourself.
Through deep 1:1 work and relational coaching—individuals, couples, groups—we support your return to unfiltered truth, raw power, and relational integrity.
We work through the body. Through emotion. Through the real-time edge of your relationships.
We don’t fix you.
We reveal you.
What Actually Changes?
When you commit to this work, things don’t just improve—they transform:
- You stop performing and start living.
- You feel your body again. Your boundaries. Your hunger. Your yes and your no.
- You show up in relationship clear, grounded, and fiercely present.
- You let go of needing to be liked, validated, or understood.
- You remember what it means to lead, love, speak, and make love from truth.
- You finally stop abandoning yourself—for anyone or anything.
This is not about healing so you can be more functional.
It’s about waking up—so you can be more fully alive.
For Couples
If you’re a couple who:
- Feels like you’re circling something deep, but keep missing each other
- Can’t seem to communicate without slipping into old pain, power struggles, or shutdown
- Longs for more eroticism, more reverence, more truth—but doesn’t know how to unlock it
- Knows you’re here to build a relationship that’s legendary, not just “fine”
We help you meet in the fire.
Not to fix each other—but to face yourselves together.
To speak the things you’ve both been afraid to say.
With love.
To listen for what’s beneath the story.
And to build from a place that’s so much more honest, sacred, and sexually alive.
If You’re Ready…
If you’re done with surface-level anything.
If you’re done avoiding what’s real.
If you’re ready to break the cycle, embody the truth, and live the kind of life—and love—that actually costs you something real to claim…
Then let’s begin.





Each program gives you....
- 6-12 month containers for mastery
- Online and F2F sessions (when possible due to location)
- Powerful tools, rituals and exercises for rapid learning and solid integration
- Recordings and workbooks for future work and reference
- Consistent evaluation and check ins to support healing, transformation and mastery
- Phone and message support for times inbetween sessions
notorious hearts coaching programs
Individual Coaching programs
• Connect with and learn to live from intuition
• Discover a deep inner discipline and persistence
• Create and maintain deep, loving and authentic relationships
• Free yourself from old, painful and self-limiting patterns
• Transform from ‘surviving’ to ‘THRIVING’
• Connect to, align with and live your true purpose, every day
• Embody your true sexual and sensual nature, letting go of shame
• Learn to create the exact life that you desire
• Discover your true power, and penetrate the world with it
• Learn the power of authentic communication
• Find your joy, playfulness and freedom
• Step out of fear and into your power
• Let go of resistance and step into your flow
• Unleash your animal power in a safe and expansive way
Sacred Partnership Programs
• Dissolve your barriers to love and trust, and find true connection
• Create and maintain deep, loving and authentic relationships
• Free yourself from old, painful and self-limiting patterns
• Discover and embody your feminine & masculine power
• Connect to, align with and live your true purpose, every day
• Embody your true sexual and sensual nature, letting go of shame
• Learn the tools to relate from deep presence and love
• Create and maintain healthy & loving boundaries in relating
• Learn the power of authentic communication
• Own, express and receive your desires and more pleasure
Sexual Mastery Programs
• Learn about energy systems and ancient Tantric Arts
• Learn rituals and tools to deepen love making as a spiritual practice
• Free yourself from old, painful and self-limiting patterns
• Discover and embody your true sexual power
• Achieve higher states of consciousness through sexuality and energy play
• Embody your true sexual and sensual nature, letting go of shame
• Learn the tools to last longer and give and receive more pleasure
• Become a true master in the bedroom
• Own, express and receive your desires and more pleasure
NOTORIOUS HEARTS SPEAK UP
It’s my eternal joy to see people shine in their truth. Check how they feel:
Transformational Growth & Deep Self-Discovery
“Before working with Steve Shiva, I kept hitting the same barriers, repeating the same patterns. Through his guidance, I have completely shifted my outlook on life. I’ve healed, developed deep self-awareness, and now move through life with clarity and purpose. His approach is a powerful blend of science, spirituality, and practical tools that make real transformation possible.”
— Steven Tso, Entrepreneur & Start-Up Founder
A Safe Container for Deep Healing
“Steve Shiva created a space where I could finally drop my shame and guilt. I felt truly seen and supported, grounded in a safe container where I could express myself fully. His work helped me connect deeply with my masculine energy while opening my heart with compassion. Steve is honest, disciplined, and deeply kind—a rare guide for anyone seeking true transformation.”
— Alexander Cottle, Transformational Coach & Founder of Unmasked Man Project
From Self-Doubt to Embodied Truth
“What makes a mentor truly trustworthy? Integrity. Steve Shiva walks his talk. He has done his inner work, and he brings that raw authenticity into his coaching. He doesn’t just teach—he stands beside you, helping you burn away the illusions until only the truth remains. If you are ready to live from your essence, I highly recommend working with Steve.”
— Paal Christian Buntz, Founder of The Wildman Program, Integral Sexologist & Tantra Teacher
A Powerful Masculine Presence
“I reached out to Steve at one of the lowest points in my life. I needed a strong yet compassionate masculine presence, and he was exactly that. He held space, nurtured me, and challenged me in all the right ways. His support helped me integrate the pain I was experiencing and emerge stronger and more aligned. He’s the real deal.”
— Edward Price Stern
A Mentor Unlike Any Other
“In a sea of self-proclaimed coaches and healers, how do you know who’s the real deal? Steve Shiva is. I’ve witnessed his authenticity and unwavering heart through adversity. He leads with deep integrity, and his work changes lives. If you’re looking for a true guide, you’re in the right place.”
— James Winstanley, Founder of Ayurvedic Yoga Massage Institute
The Brother I Never Had
“Steve doesn’t just teach—he listens, he feels, he walks with you. I’ve reached out to him in my hardest moments, and he’s been there with unwavering presence. He connects with a deep vision that reminds me of my own strength. Every conversation leaves me feeling more motivated, more aligned, and more connected to my authentic self.”
— Manuele Paradiso
Fearless, Committed, and Open
“Steve Shiva is pure energy. He gives his all and doesn’t stop until the work is done. He is fearless, committed, and deeply open. If you ask for his help, you won’t be disappointed.”
— Frederik Lundquist, Former Commissioner of Operative Staff, Swedish Police Force & Meditation Instructor
Deeply Seen & Held
“I felt deeply touched by the heart essence that he embodies and how it radiates through his presence and connection with others. In Shiva’s presence, I felt heard, seen, and met at a raw, deep, intimate human level—and that is a gift you don’t come across every day.”
— Fatima Zahra Layla
A Rare Depth of Presence & Connection
“From the moment I met Shiva, it felt like reconnecting with someone I had known forever. His depth, wisdom, and presence are rare. He embodies both strong masculine energy and an open-hearted connection to the feminine, creating a space where profound transformation happens. He is a guide, a mentor, and a mirror of truth. I am deeply grateful for our connection and the journey ahead.”
— Mark Vineis, CEO
Authentic, Honest, and Inspiring
“Steve listens deeply, with warmth and curiosity. His honesty and wisdom are rare, and his passion for self-exploration is contagious. Having worked closely with him through months of men’s work, I can say with certainty—he is a man I am grateful to have in my life.”
— Jamie Wrate, Men’s Circle Leader & Coach, Shamanic Initiate
A Guide for Deep Self-Knowledge
“Steve Shiva has the process, the innate wisdom, and the years of experience to assist a man on his own personal journey to deepen his self-knowledge. His work is a rare blend of depth, insight, and transformation.”
— John Hopkins, Independent Advisor
A Pioneer of the Spirit
“In today’s world, the greatest challenge for men is to open their hearts to the feminine while standing strong in unwavering awareness of life, in all its horror and beauty. Few have the courage to go beyond conditioned fear and into the core of the liberated human heart. Steve Shiva is one of those rare souls. He is deeply committed to truth and understands that we are all both a work in progress and already whole. To work with Shiva is an honor, and I am grateful to call him a brother.”
— Toby Pritchard
From Lost Identity to Empowered Man
“I entered the advanced program thinking commitment alone would be enough, but I learned that true transformation requires discipline. I started at the lowest point of my life, completely losing the identity I had known. Through Steve’s unwavering support, I found the strength to rebuild from within. The process was painful, but it led me to a place I never imagined—living in the body of an adult with the joy and happiness of a child. When I hit rock bottom again, I was able to climb out with discipline and perseverance. This program helped me transform from a hurt boy into an empowered man.”
— S.D., Entrepreneur & Start-Up Engineer
A Leader Who Creates Lasting Change
“After my first weekend retreat with Steve, I knew I had only scratched the surface—I wanted to go deeper, and I knew he was the person to guide me. His humility, integrity, and deep understanding of the psychological and emotional challenges men face are unmatched. Six months of coaching with him changed my life. I now feel deeply connected to myself, my masculinity, and my sexuality. Steve’s coaching isn’t a quick fix, but it’s a true path to transformation. I wholeheartedly recommend him to anyone seeking real, lasting change.”
— Dan Milbourne, Online Digital Investor
“Run from what’s comfortable. Forget safety. Live where you fear to live. Destroy your reputation. Be notorious.”
Rumi
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